What is Carmelite spirituality? A couple of readers have asked me this question, and I assume several more have wondered and not asked. So I’m going to write this as a post (for maximum visibility and readership), then make it a permanent page soon.
Carmelite spirituality stems from the teaching and lifestyle of one of the oldest surviving religious orders in the Catholic Church. Like the Franciscans, Jesuits, Dominicans, and others, the Carmelites have a particular way of living out the faith, which has been approved by the Church. St. Therese of Lisieux, one of the best-beloved saints of our age, was a Carmelite nun.
From ancient Mt. Carmel to medieval Europe
In the 12th century, a group of Christian hermits settled on Mt. Carmel, where the prophet Elijah had once lived in a cave. St. Albert of Jerusalem wrote a rule of life for them to follow. They built a monastery and came together for prayer, but each lived in his own cell. They dedicated their oratory to Mary, becoming known as the Brothers of the Blessed Virgin Mary of Mt. Carmel.
As always, tensions were high in the Middle East at this time. Soon the Carmelite brothers left the Holy Land for Europe. There they assumed an active life–that is, living and working in the world. Blessed John Soreth established the Carmelite nuns in 1452. The Third Order, for seculars, began two centuries later.
The reform by Teresa of Avila and John of the Cross
Throughout the centuries many saints and blesseds in various countries reformed the Carmelites in their lands. The most significant reform came from saints Teresa of Avila and John of the Cross in 16th-century Spain. The communities they established eventually became the separate Discalced Carmelite Order. “Discalced” means “shoeless.” They wore sandals as a sign of poverty and penance. Teresa and John were later named doctors of prayer by the Church. This means the Church not only approves their teaching, but recommends it to all Christians.
These days, the Carmelites of the Ancient Observance (O. Carm.) and the Discalced Carmelites (OCD) see themselves as two branches of the same family. Though their goals and teachings are somewhat different, they share much in common. There are also at least a half-dozen new members of the Carmelite family that have been approved by the Church, including the Monks of the Most Blessed Virgin Mary of Mount Carmel, to which my brother belongs. They would probably all agree with the spirituality posts on this blog. Nevertheless, when I speak of Carmelite spirituality, I am speaking about OCDS spirituality, which is what I know most about. I was a member of the Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites (OCDS) for about 15 years.
The spirituality of OCDS
The recently approved OCDS Constitutions list 6 “fundamental elements of the vocation of Teresian Secular Carmelites”:
- living in allegiance to Christ by imitating the Blessed Virgin Mary
- seeking union with God though contemplation and apostolic activity
- commitment to prayer
- apostolic zeal
- self-denial in accordance with the Gospel
- commitment to evangelization
These are the central ideas I blog on in my spirituality posts, along with wisdom from St. Therese of Lisieux and other Carmelite saints. I also include some more general Catholic spirituality.
Why I am no longer OCDS
The first Mass of my brother, Fr. Michael Mary, M. Carm.
Another question people ask is why I am a “former member of OCDS.” Here is my story. I began in OCDS when I was single and living in the Twin Cities, about 40 minutes from the nearest community. I got married a year before making my definitive promise. Within a year after making my promise, we moved to LaCrosse, Wisconsin, where my husband went to work for then-Bishop Raymond Burke. We were now about 200 minutes from the nearest OCDS community. During this same time, OCDS was working on its new Constitutions. In the past, the order had allowed members to live their promises in isolation, but that was now no longer the case. As our family grew, I could not make it to monthly meetings, but I remained in contact with my community and participated by email in formation classes.
In 2009, we moved to New Ulm, Minnesota, about 80 minutes southwest of the nearest OCDS community. I was hoping to be able to make it to meetings more regularly, but found that was too hard on my family. I petitioned and received permission from our Provincial Delegate to temporarily wave the requirement to attend monthly meetings.
That changed in 2011, when the OCDS community I had long belonged to was suppressed. Due to irregularities in the formation practices of the community, members who wished to transfer to other communities had to be under probation for one year. I no longer had a community to relate to. I would have to attend meetings regularly for one year at least, before a new community could decide whether or not to accept me as a member. After discussing this with my husband, I realized the requirement was too difficult, given the distance and our four sons, the youngest a newborn. I was not able to obtain an exception this time, so, sadly, I had to be released from my Carmelite promises.
How do you find an OCD community?
Theresa, where do you live? There are 3 OCDS provinces in the US, and each has an official list of communities. I know the Eastern province (which goes all the way through Minnesota) has theirs listed online.
I live in Idaho.
Theresa, it looks like there are communities in Boise and Couer D”Alene. Here’s the link: http://www.ocdwest.org/ocds.html
Thank you Connie.
Enjoyed your page – found it by accident. Wishing you every Grace and Blessing
as you journey up Mount Carmel
We are on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Carmelite-Nuns-Preston/238174856240897
Thank you! God bless you and your sisters.
What an intriguing story. I am sorry to hear that happened with your community. I can sympathize a bit, though, about being without one. I had to wait about 10 years from the time I felt called to the vocation, to the time when a couple of professed members received permission to establish a “study group.” Once we had enough members received, we became a community. I understand how you might feel “orphaned.” Your community does become your extended family. I am in Canada, in the Maltese Province, and we have isolates, especially in the north. Both of my parents are directors of formation and were instrumental in the writing of our constitutions. I hope this doesn’t come across too boldly, but I would think that if it was your vocation (of course I mean second vocation, as marriage will always be your first), it still is, the only difference being that you have been released from your obligations.
Joanne, not too bold–I agree totally. The question is whether it was really my vocation or not. I sure thought it was, and I made sacrifices to attend meetings as long as I could. Perhaps God simply wanted me to have a Carmelite spirituality. Perhaps the M. Carms will have female oblates some time in the future and I can help start a community. I am as fully Carmelite in my spirituality as I was for all those years. In fact, writing about it makes me focus on it like I haven’t since the early days of formation. I don’t know what God has in store for the future. He likes to surprise me.
Thank you very much for sharing with us your story, may God bless you and I am sure that even though you are no longer a member of the Carmelites but you can still be a good servant of the Lord by serving Him, living faithfully your marriage.
I would like please to ask if even though not anymore a member but do you still continue helping and guiding people spiritually ?
Hi, Amani. Yes, I have a Facebook group now, called Authentic Contemplative Prayer, that has over 15,000 members. https://www.facebook.com/groups/737852419689126
I also have written or co-written 6 books and have 2 video courses on prayer and detachment–with a third course in the works. Here is the link to my store, where you can see all the books and courses. The courses are currently closed, but How to Grow In Prayer will open again in July. https://contemplativehomeschool.com/shop/
To whom it may concern,
My name is Fr. Stephen Arabadjis. I am a member of the Society of St. Pius X. But I am in my 7th year of Sabbatical.Therefore I was hoping your group could do a 54 day rosary novena for my intentions. But any prayers and sacrifices would be greatly appreciated. I know Our Lady will reward you generously for this.
In Our Lady,
P.S. Thanking you in advance, since I don’t always get all my communications.